Say something else

"that is going to be so hard on you, when he leaves."

I told my mother the other day that I just want to say "shut up" when people say this to me.  It's not at all insightful and it does not encourage, yet people feel the need to tell me this all the time.  As if I never thought of such a thing.  Today, I've been thinking of other things someone could say instead:

1.  You have a beautiful family.
2.  How did you decide to become foster parents?
3. How can I pray for your family?
4. May God be glorified in this situation.
5.  If you ever need help with your big kids while you take care of foster care requirements we'd love to help out.
6.  Well, he sure is a cutie.
7.  So, what are your other kids up to these days?
8. Have you started your Christmas shopping yet?
9.  Lovely weather we're having.
10. Have a great day!

Think it, talk to God about it, just don't say it to me.